When nothing in life seems to be going
right, you sometimes just get stuck. And even though everything looks fine from
the outside and you feel like you SHOULD be doing great somehow…you're not. This
is really difficult to explain. In those moments when you just feel down for no
obvious reason, you often need a good pep talk and someone that tells you it is
all goind to be okay. As much as I believe in being your own white knight and
giving zero fucks about how other people percieve you, having a friend or
family member tell you they believe in you is necessary sometimes. Especially
women can probably relate to feeling hormonal and stressed out and just
generally irritated without any real reason. Suddenly EVERYTHING kind of bugs
you. But when someone asks you don´t have have a valid response, so you just
shake it off.
I have been in both sides of this: from
giving my friends speeches about how awesome they are to sitting on their bed
crying my eyes out and needing a bit of love myself. It is important to know,
that this shit is totally normal. You may feel like the world is ending and
your life sucks, but it really isn't and you'll soon see that you are actually
doing pretty damn well. I have to give a shout out to my mum here for putting
up with me in those times. Especially a couple of days ago when I started
freaking out about the future and she calmed me down and told me I would be
okay. Because that is exactly what we all need to hear sometimes isn´t it?
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