Attraction

Sometimes you meet eyes with someone and you just know that there's that spark between you. And other times there's someone you really like and you want to make things work with, but you're just not…feeling it. It is hard to explain how attraction works and I don't think there are any rules to it. Like, I was pretty sure I had a "type", but honestly that doesn't seem to be the case.

In my humble opinion, I think that we often feel attracted to people we didn't expect and it can take us a bit by surprise. Scientists might argue that it all comes down to hormones or pheromones or whatever but I would like to keep that amazing feeling of chemistry as magical as possible instead of explaining it all in a rational way.

I could make this into a big thing but what I will say is this: you don't get a vote in who you're attracted to. Be it a guy or a girl, honestly, if it feels great then why the hell would you care?
Sometimes it's a stranger on the tube or the guy at a coffeeshop. Or maybe it's someone you've known forever and never felt that way about before. Most of these little crushes are never acted upon - altough I HAVE actually been chatted up on the tube - but when there's even just a tiny chance, I say let´s all be a little more brave and just go for it. And if you fall flat on your face? Well, the good thing about attraction is that you never know when or how it might strike you again.